How We Treat Others

In your journey of life

What is your aspiration?

To assemble or

Dismantle?

Build up or

Knock down?

A selfish person

Will attempt to

Demoralize with

Sharp tongued negativity.

A giving individual

Shows respect

Speaking

With sweet motivation,

Encouragement and

positivity.

So I ask,

What is your aspiration?

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💕

Kind Regards and hugs – K

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Sometimes I Act Like an Idiot

Found this quote today-

“Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will.” – Unknown

☺️

A childhood core belief-

From an experience,

Buried deep,

Appears-

When I am hurt.

It triggers-

An old whisper,

“For survival,

You MUST fight back!”

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As a so called adult

In my heart

I know, the truth,

Happiness comes from

Within.

Lashing out,

Accomplishes nothing!

It merely adds

Guilty feelings

To my pain,

Thus, I feel worse!

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Happiness comes from

Within.

My joy grows

When I inspire,

Boost, cheer,

Lend a helping hand

Or listening ear.

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My happiness

Is within my own

Soul.

A soul brimming

With golden sunshine,

Kindness and caring.

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Why do I digress?

Panic?

Tailspin?

Into a realm of ugly

Retorts?

Because I have

Some work to do.

Face the inner negativity,

Define, recognize and

Acknowledge it.

Then I can be free!

Hard work!

I’ll start right now!

Why?

Past ghosts

Have no place

In the person

I’ve become!

Today,

I start the journey

Towards another

lifetime Win!

🐾🐾🐾

Just remember

You CAN

Break the cycle,

True happiness

Comes NOT from others,

Happiness comes from

Within.

☀️❤️☀️

Kind Regards and

believing in me,

believing in you – K

Jaffrey NH Road Trip 6.2018

Peaceful country living

4 Wheelin thru the woods & around the farm
Peering over the edge

4 Wheelin trail bridge
Eye of a needle

Jaffrey, NH, Southern slope of Mt. Monadnock!

Stone walls everywhere

Place I called home for the Weekend

Canoe caught through the trees

Listening to the peepers, 🐢 lay eggs here

Pharaohs Horses
Saddle bags
MeadowBrook Jaffrey NH

TheBlackWallBlog Daisy discovery! 💕

❤️

Kind Regards and feeling refreshed – K

🐴

Photography copyrighted & compliments of K of TheBlackWallBlog 6.2018

empath fatigue

empath fatigue

https://fierykaleidoscope.wordpress.com/2018/06/06/empath-fatigue/
— Read on fierykaleidoscope.wordpress.com/2018/06/06/empath-fatigue/

A wonderfully fantastic overview and explanation of how an empath feels the world around them!

It was a MUST REBLOG!

Superb for those of us that live the life of one AND for the people who have an Empath in their life! ❤️

My time!

When acquaintances

Stop you on the street

To ask, How you’re doing?

Breathe, smile

Let it be.

When you show up

To surprise someone

And it’s you

Who gets the surprise!

Breathe, smile

Let it be.

When you realize

It was a possibility

And now it’s not.

Breathe, smile

Let it be.

☀️

No more worrying

About that we.

Breathe, smile,

Feeling my inner

Sunshine Returning.

Remembering who I am!

Reveling in that awesome

Freedom of me!

I’m breathing

I’m smiling

The world is mine

For the taking!

As I turn and walk away,

I breathe,

Hug myself and smile.

Time, to let it be.

Kind Regards

and #winning – K

Photography by KoftheBlackWallBlog. 6.2018

“Cee’s Which Way Challenge” June 2018

To the right in Grissom Ln

To the left on Grissom Ln

A memory-

My older bros favorite

Pastime – 200 mile trek with The Mountain Men!

The drive home…

Heading home from Maine

2010 overseas

🐾🐾🐾

😄

Have you joined in

One of Cee’s photography

Challenges?

Don’t miss out!

This is one of my all time favorites!

🚁

Kind Regards and remembering I am free to go wherever I please – K

Photography compliments

Of KoftheBlackwallblog, and the 2010 from a traveling friend.

That’s Just My Dad…

Moon River

Wider than a mile

I’ll be crossing

You in style some day…..

🎵🎶🎶🎵🎶🎶🎵🦋🦋🎶🎶🎵

Dad, I can’t believe it’s been 21 years since you went off to play jazz sitting on a cloud!

In the quiet moments of a hard day- I can still hear you guiding me in the right direction.

When I close my eyes I see your smile.

(Playing with my daughter)💕
(My son, dad’s mini me)💕

When i listen to music i automatically pick out each individual instrument just the way you taught me.

(2nd from the left)🎺

When i dance i recall how cool it was as a little girl to be waltzing around the room while standing on your feet.

(Dad’s original
mini me, ME)💕

When i am near someone smoking a Tiparillo -i inhale and it reminds me of your occasional after-dinner cigar.

Each day i feel your gentle nature all around me.

Thank you dad for being you…💕

That’s just My Dad! ❤️🎶🎵🎶🎺🎺

Kind Regards and

Smiling with memories -K

Retrospective

As the Mind Races

This is from An interesting class

I took in 2010:

❤️

Shhhh

Let me close my eyes

For just a little while.

Take away the ever rush

Of should be, could be, was.

I want to envision

Endless fields

Of Colorful wildflowers,

Skies of blue and

Imagine the peace

Warmth and comfort

Lying in your arms

Embraced in a

Love forever true.

Just give me precious

Moments of peace and rest.

Shhh Slow gentle breathing

As I visualize

Long strolling walks

Through the woods or

Along the sandy shore.

Sounds of laughter and

chuckles

As we share life’s thoughts.

Stop this craziness.

Take me back there

Just once more.

As I lay my cheek upon

the coolness of your

Newly carved stone.

Allow me to steal

Another precious few

Then I’ll head home,

To start my life anew.

❤️

The idea of the class was to actually have a funeral for something or someone who made you sad.

I thought they were, dare I say nuts? Bananas?

Amazingly, this odd but simple exercise actually works for some of us!

Kind Regards and letting go of things – K

❤️🌷☀️

Today’s a Good Day to

Remember,

Write it down,

Read it,

Read it AGAIN,

⭐️

You are strong!

Yes I am!

⭐️

You are loved!

Yes I am!

⭐️

You are caring!

Yes I am!

🌟

You are worth it!

Yes I am!

⭐️

You are successful!

Yes I am!

⭐️

You deserve the best!

Yes I do!

⭐️

You are winning!

Hot damn!

Yes I am!

❤️🌎❤️

“Ability is what you’re capable of doing.

Motivation determines what you do.

Attitude determines how well you do it.”

-Lou Holtz

🐾🐾🐾🐾

Kind Regards and right here with you – K

Photography by K of TheBlackwallblog.

The Gavel’s Decision

“GUILTY!” States the Judge!

“Of what? ” I ask?

He replies, “It’s an extensive list!”

“Please tell me!”, I plead.

“Remember, YOU asked”,the Judge retorts and continues .

“On this day, let it be known that:”

“You love him too much.”

“You accepted unacceptable terms.”

“You walked into a relationship with the odds against you.”

“A couple needs the freedom, to be there for each other.”

“Equality in spending quality time, at your house, or his house. You DID NOT have that.”

“Without the above, you lose a precious gift. The opportunity to truly show your love, be there and support each other through all kinds of things, on an even playing field.”

“Due to yours being one sided, your house open, his being off limits, your giving nature was stifled.”

But I thought it would be only for a short time and all would work out!”, I intervened.

“Even true love has it’s limits, young lady.” “Over 2 years of being reigned in, will take it’s toll”, Said the Judge

“So what now?”, I asked

“Look at this picture, what do you see?”, he asked

“A beautiful reflection in the slow moving water of a blue sky, white clouds, and the trees along the shore” said I

“Exactly!”, The Judge nodded in agreement.

“You are those trees, standing tall, reaching for the sun, stuck in one place, as the river continues on”, replied the Judge.

“Now look at this picture and tell me what you see”

A vibrant colored sky, the sun’s rays free to spread their light across the sky, the horizon.” Said I

The Judge asked, ” Which one represents you?”

I started to cry, my heart felt heavy, as though someone had placed a ton of bricks on my chest.

Which one did I choose?

Kind Regards – K

Photography copyrighted and compliments of BGage.

Guilty

Contentment in now

As a young child

I could

Lay on a blanket

And get lost

In the beauty

Of deep blue skies

Decorated with wisps

Of white clouds

Seemingly forever.

Obviously

Fifty years later,

Things haven’t changed,

Yesterday at lunch,

No blanket needed,

My eyes, heart & soul

Gravitated upward.

Click!

Eventually those wisps

Move on,

Dissipate,

But,

Their majestic

Mystery,

Peaceful exuberance

Remains.

Kind Regards and

Feeling content – K

🦋

Photography copyrighted and compliments of K of TheBlackWallBlog 5.23.2018

Disappear

Hello?

Can you see me?

You, sitting on the edge

Of my couch

Head tilted to your phone.

Can you hear me?

You sitting there

Physical body present,

Mindset unknown.

Can you talk to me?

You sitting there,

Quietly disengaged.

My inquiries,

Go unanswered.

Why are you here?

You sitting there,

Silent.

Me?

I feel trapped,

Sad,

Alone.

Kind Regards

and present – K

Infect